Tuesday 1 March 2016

Makeup rules? Eff your beauty standards!

For most females, beauty and cosmetics is something we become aware of from a very young age. When it comes to wearing makeup there are so many things that people say about it, from your grandma to your older sister to beauty magazines there's always someone trying to tell you what to do or that you're doing it wrong. Regardless of their intentions or their credentials, who's to say they're right? Alternative and goth subcultures specifically are known for rule bending looks on the more extreme end of the scale with heavy coverage foundation and dark rimmed eyes, black lips and shaved or extremely manicured  brows. Not to say that everyone belonging to those subcultures will be sporting those looks mind you, because whilst makeup is a big part of thelse kinds of looks in isn't the defining factor of identity for goth etc.

So I thought I would do a little debunking of these so called rules, just to let you all know that you can carry on expressing yourselves no matter what the world is telling you. Because obviously you need me to tell you that. 

Eyes or lips. 

It's like the old "legs or boobs" rule, you can only get one out or you risk looking like a slut. I don't beleive in either of these viewpoints, because, hey, people should be able to express themselves however they see fit. I mean picking eyeshadows and lipsticks that compliment each other can be intimidating but when all you're wearing is black you can't go wrong, right? 


Match your lipstick to your nail varnish

Who in the real world has the time for this much thinking ahead?! Get real.

Don't tweeze above your eyebrows, only shape underneath for a natural brow

Personally,  my natural eyebrows are pretty horrific. They are huge and messy and have long coarse hairs, which I trim with scissors and then pluck the shit out of them, top and bottom. I feel like there is a huge obsession with eyebrows in the mainstream beauty world at the moment, and it really really baffles me. Ten years ago thin brows were fashionable and sought after, and now you will see articles slating the thin brows in favour of youthful bushy ones. Each to their own I suppose, but again a lot of goths tend to shave their eyebrows and draw them on everyday in fun shapes so as to make upkeep easier.

The link  for this picture is actually from one of those eyebrow articles

Only wear warm or cool colours based on your skin tone.

Argh makeup is supposed to be about freedom and creativity why must we impose so many rules like this?! I don't actually know if I have warm or cool skin, nor do I know how to tell for someone else's skin, so I think most people are highly unlikely to look at your average Jane on the street and say "wow that eyeshadow is NOT working for her warm skin tone at all". I think everyone should be free to experiment with colours and not be restricted by skin tone, eye colour or any other classification that means green eyeshadow is off the table for them.

Apparently this  is how you would know which one you are

Don't wear eyeliner or mascara on your bottom lash line

OK,  I don't know who the hell thought this one up.  Without eyeliner on at least my top and bottom waterline I feel naked, and I tend to put a lot of black on the bottom lash line to match the upper lash line or it feels unfinished. According to some beauty know-it-all's it can make your eyes look tiny, but without mascara on the bottom lashes I feel it can look very top heavy. Some people like heavy eyeliner ok!

Stay away from dark eyeliners

Well we don't want to risk looking goth now do we? How tacky. If you really must wear one make sure it's only at night time on a very special occasion, during the daytime just cover your eyes in glitter instead for a lovely fresh disco ball look.

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Avoid false eyelashes for everyday use

Sorry to say, false lashes are just too much for daytime wear. Only the very skilled in false lash application can get away with it, and even then individual lashes are vastly preferable to strip lashes. Well people, I must respectfully disagree. In my opinion, mascara just doesn't do much if you have average eyelashes. False Lashes just add so much more dimension to a look. They just make it so much more awesome. Can you tell I'm an addict?


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Heavy foundation is not for every day

So they say that full coverage foundation is just for night time and special occasions (again with the special occasions!) It is recommended you use a foundation that is a shade darker than normal to accommodate your (gasp!) suntan. Some people have skin issues and things they want to cover up, and personally I like pale foundation with full coverage to cover as many of my freckles as possible. Most people that work at beauty counters in shops try and match me a foundation that is much to dark for me because they are going for the freckle shade and not the colour underneath. Surely if my whole face looks tanned my freckles will dissappear? Ha. No thankyou sir. Not quite your white grease paint but not far off.

In conclusion, please don't tell me I'm wearing to much makeup. Sit the fuck down and let us paint our faces.



12 comments:

  1. I 100% agree. Makeup has always been, and will always be, about creativity and self-expression ... just like clothing/style. Life's too short to follow the rules and not have any fun.

    Personally, I'm not wearing a lot of makeup lately because I don't feel like it. I'm gravitating to more understated looks accented with a dark lip. It saves me precious time in the morning and allows me to focus on my work, which has become the love of my life again. :) My focus has shifted, and that's ok.

    I think you look absolutely beautiful, as always! Your skin always looks like porcelain.

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    1. Yep!it certainly is. But that's beauty of it, at whatever place on our lives we are in we adapt it to suit us. Which is most definitely ok!!

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  2. Stuff the rules! :) Great post!

    One of my favourite beauty memes is how people tell you that you look better without makeup when you wear subtle makeup, but if you wear no makeup they ask if you are sick/dying! :P

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    1. Yes!! It's like actually I AM wearing makeup.. just not alot of it. I don't even care when future husband says he likes me better without makeup because he see's me like that enough anyway, I like ito. So I won't stop :)

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  3. Don't pluck yer eyebrows above the top line?! Whoever came up with that gem never had my delightful black brows inherited directly from my Dad, and just as wild as his were. For a gingernut, I have very dark lashes and brows. And they spiral upwards towards my hairline as if they're on steroids. Wax is my best friend if I don't wish to be sasquatch girl!

    (my brother got the sleek blond brows from my mum's side of the family. The swine!)

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    1. Boys! I swear they get the best natural eyelashes and brows! But yes, mine are the same too. Obviously us dainty girls who naturally have no body hair whatsoever would never need to pluck above the brows!

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  4. I don't give a shit about "make-up rules" - they only make those up to have something to write about every week in stupid beauty magazines! I only have an issue with a certain angry orange little American man right now...

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    1. Exactly! Which I don't read. I'm trying not to think about him too much, I just feel so insignificant and powerless to make any sort of an impact.

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  5. I couldn't agree with you more. I always do dark eyes and lips. It's my face I'll slather on it whatever I like thank you very much.

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  6. To me, laws are enough rules, no other rules are needed :-) Great post!
    Hmmm well... maybe those 'rules' excist though to help those who want to do something but are somehow feeling uncomfortable and need some guideline to fit in? (even though, why would anyone want to just follow the masses o_O)

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    1. Exactly! Maybe that would help some people, but I certainly wouldn't want to follow the masses!

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